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My best friend is dating my bully - November 19th 2016, 09:54 PM

Ok, so there's bit more to this situation than this paragraph will probably be able to explain, because everything's so complex, but I'll try to put this simply.
My friend started liking and dating this person she met online, who I think is absolutely not good for her. Now, me and my friend have known eachother for seven years now and we're practically sisters, we know almost everything about eachother. But the person she is dating either treats people as gods, which is only my friend herself right now, or he treats them as "toys" or even trash. He used to treat me as a toy, and tried to manipulate me into liking him, but I managed to see through it and left. Immediately afterwards, he began to harass me and insult me until I was crying. Which proved, his kindness to me was only an act. I tried repeatedly to tell my friend that her boyfriend wasn't a good person, I tried repeatedly to tell her that he was bullying me, and she said that she told him to stop, but he didn't. And when I told her that he didn't stop, she acted as if it wasn't a big deal! She just continues to love him more and more, saying that he's the only one who gets her, and I'm trying to tell her how he's treating me.
I've noticed that ever since she started dating him, she's started cursing more, and looking more and more only at herself. Her boyfriend has even convinced her to introduce him to some of our other friends at school, and now he's telling those friends from school that I've been saying things behind their backs, he's trying to get them to hate me.
It's gotten to the point where I'm about to cut with my best friend!
But I don't want to at the same time, I keep hoping that there's a chance that the old her will come back, the one who understood me so well, and the one who I understood so well...