Re: 16, Never had a boyfriend -
October 15th 2016, 03:05 PM
No there's nothing wrong with it. It was unkind of your friend to throw that in your face as an attack instead of maturely telling you that you said X and it upset her. That's just poor conflict resolution right there.
Load of people don't have boyfriends until they're older than 16. One of my best friends is 25 and still never had a boyfriend. My boyfriend was 22 when we started dating and I've been his only girlfriend. I don't think my sister has had a boyfriend either.
Trust me, having a boyfriend can be great. I'm not going to sit here and be like "don't worry, it sucks any ways" but being single is also great; it's so easy to forget that both ways are awesome. Also, you never know if you'll get a boyfriend at 17 or 18 or something, who knows. I wouldn't worry much. Plus, so many high school relationships end, I'm probably really biased because my high school boyfriend was abusive, so I'm not going to be like "don't waste your time", I'm just saying that even if you don't date your for a while, it's ok.
If it bugs you, you could always try asking people out. Via text if it is to hard to do in person lol
Feel free to PM me if you ever need to chat or have questions
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