[Kate*]

Disability aside, you lied on me, ruined my life, and got away with it. Yet, you have the job you have, that I wanted. Disgusting.

You provoked the crap out of me and then complained about my attitude. Yours was probably worse, the only difference was that you were credentialed and given authority in a profession that gets a free pass. I hope karma kicks your ass someday.

You're complaining because they haven't called you about this and you're sick of having to initiate everything, and if we don't do something she'll complain nonstop for the next 6 months. You know what:

I'm resentful that WE'RE the ONLY ones who have to do this EVERY holiday.

You have to initiate it every time because YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO GIVES A DAMN! NO ONE ELSE WANTS TO DO THIS, EVER.

If she chooses to bitch for the next 6 months, that's her choice, you decide whether to put up with it or not. You ARE allowed to walk out!!!

Now she's going to start threatening not to give us money if we don't. You know what? It's not about the money, I'm getting to the point that you couldn't pay me enough, and she should be more concerned that it takes financial threats to get her own family to deal with her. It's not worth it. I'm BEYOND old enough to make my own choice here, and should be allowed to refuse without the guilt trip. Like mother like daughter I guess.

Yes, I have depression, but I only complain to those willing to listen, I don't do it 24/7, and I don't guilt trip people into dealing with me or use it to manipulate people into doing and giving me what I want.