[Kate*]

Not about here:

I get it, you've met them in person so you don't want them being bashed. The problem is that you didn't define "bashed" and it seems to mean that we can't say ANYTHING even slightly negative. That's completely unrealistic. Nobody's perfect and I don't see how we're supposed to have discussions, which you claim the group is for, if we aren't allowed to disagree about or say anything that might be taken as even remotely negative at the risk of being thrown out for even potentially causing conflict. Yet, someone you've assigned power to can say the same exact (almost word for word) thing as me, their's is allowed and mine is deleted. Your expectations are unrealistic and you're taking your perceived power and authority way too far. This is a TV show, there are more important things to get this worked up over.

This is exactly what I was talking about, you deleted his (completely acceptable because somebody approved it) post and my completely reasonable comment with it probably out of fear because people can't act more mature than children. I don't get it.