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Re: dating and other stuff - July 27th 2016, 05:13 PM

First, don't worry about doing those things just to be like your friends. It'll happen when it happens. You don't have to talk to them about it if you don't want to. There's nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend in high school (or if you live somewhere with an equivalent) or college or ever, really. While you may really want to be in a relationship, you have plenty of time.

Second, the mindset of "I can't get a girlfriend" is honestly probably part of it. A girlfriend isn't something you "get" but rather someone you share interests with and have feelings for who also has feelings for you. You can't force it, or it probably won't end well.



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