[Elle_94]

Hi Guys,

So I'm not sure if this is just me being jealous and possessive or if I really do have a reason to be upset here and I'd just like some opinions.

Ive been a bit upset with my boyfriend of one year over the past few weeks. For the most part he's great, but lately he keeps making plans and decisions without me. I know he has a right to do his own thing and have a life outside of our relationship of course. But I just feel that being as we've been together for a while now and we're committed to each other, it'd just be nice if he'd let me in on things, and let me know his plans and what he's going to be up to and stuff. For example, yesterday he just randomly told me he was going to climb Snowdon with his friends next month, and he only told me when I bought up overhearing one of his friends saying something about it. Apparently it'd been planned for months, but he hadn't mentioned it to me at all. Then he cancelled our plans for the half term to go to a festival with another group of friends. Now his sister has just posted on Facebook that they've booked tickets to see Busted, and again, I've heard nothing about it. I don't understand why he can't just tell me things rather than dropping stuff like this last minute. It also hurts me that his family have been very cold and rude to me over the course of our relationship, for no apparent reason, I really can't think of anything that I've done to upset them. But he just continues supporting them and their actions, and never seems to try to defend or stick up for me.

Am I being stupid about this or do you think it's fair that this bothers me? What do you think I could/should do?

Thanks in advance,
Elle