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Re: Texting girlfriend's bestfriend - May 22nd 2016, 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Skyline View Post
Hey there, I wouldn't say that you were wrong to text her best friend, and I really doubt that your girlfriend would want to breakup with you over that considering you've been together for four years. I don't see a problem with you texting her at all, as you said there was no flirting involved. Your girlfriend is probably just a more-than-average jealous person, and you'll both have to work with that. I think the bets thing is probably to let her blow her steam off and then become more calm and reasonable about the subject, and then being it up again.

Good luck!
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Originally Posted by xxpaigiexx View Post
Hey there,

I think it's good that you were honest with your girlfriend about the fact that you texted her friend. If you and her friend aren't particularly close then this could be why she was unhappy with you texting her. I would ask your girlfriend, if you have done something to upset her then it could be better to understand why she was upset to avoid doing it again. I don't think there's anything wrong with speaking to your girlfriend's friend but everyone is different, maybe your girlfriend is a little insecure and now could be a good idea to nip the problem in the bud and find out exactly what has bothered her.

I wish you the best of luck,
Paige

Thanks for the replies girls!

But right now the problem is i feel that she's trying to accuse me of flirting and trying to cheat on her.

Saying sorry and admit its my fault for not acknowledging her, is NOT a problem, at all.

But i just dont want to admit i flirt or TRIED to cheat on her. Ill definitely be stamped with a "cheating guy" stamp in future.

Should i just admit i flirted and tried to cheat on her? Or should i just stand on my point and continue on arguing with her?