Re: Dealing with being that awkward loser at school -
May 7th 2016, 07:56 PM
This sounds abit like me in my karate class. I'm one of the quieter ones in my class for karate and when I do sometimes talk I find people do occaisonally talk over me or have occaisonaly sniggered - over time I found as I got more used to talking in class and became a little more confident... I've like somewhat learned to ignore these sniggers etc. Could you maybe ignore the looks etc when you do talk in class ? Would it be possible for you to maybe at the end of class maybe have like a little private chat with your teacher? I found this helped me. I let me instructor know about my issues with speaking in large groups and she now does usually tell the guys in my class to shhhhh etc if I do like speak in class.
'There will be bad days, there will be good days, there will be really bad days, and really good days, and days that are not bad or good but just simply suck, but either way you got through it and you are here today and that is all that really matters''
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