Re: Feel pressured to do 'it' with my boyfriend? -
April 28th 2016, 07:30 PM
Hey there,
Speak to your boyfriend. Let him know the things that may be putting you off sex, is it being tired, is it just not feeling 'in the mood'. Communication is a big part of being in a relationship and we have to be open and honest about our feelings.
If you're tired then maybe try having sex at a different time of the day, in the morning or in the afternoon. If you're just not feeling in the mood then maybe you could focus on being intimate with your boyfriend and with foreplay. Kissing, cuddling and giving yourself time to relax, if you feel in the mood to have sex, great if you don't then look at other ideas.
Whether or not you have sex is your decision, if you don't want to have sex then tell your boyfriend and be firm with him, he should respect your decision to have sex or not.
I wish you the best of luck,
Paige
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