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Exclamation Anxiety/OCD or just bisexual? - March 24th 2016, 10:59 PM

Hey guys!
Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my post. I have been having a really tough time lately. About a year ago, my brother made a comment about me looking like a lesbian with my new haircut. After the fact I started stressing about liking girls. For months It went on and I constantly worried if i liked girls or not, but I was in a long term relationship with my boyfriend at the time who i loved dearly. I started noticing girls and focusing my attention to the things about them. I would stress about potentially liking them and I feel like that in turn made me notice every little thing. I would feel uncomfortable if i saw girls in revealing clothes and i would get worked up over it. Eventually, the thought somewhat diminished and I didnt worry about it or really think about it. But, now its back. I tell myself that although I notice other girls beauty I wouldnt want to be with one in a romantic setting, and could never imagine being romantic with a girl. I dont ever "fantasize" about girls and cant see a life with one. But then another parts of me thinks I am in denial and that when i get uncomfortable seeing other girls its really a cue that i am attracted to them in a romantic way. Any help? I know it sounds crazy and at this point I do not know what else to do!