[Moxie.]

Hey there,

First of all, there is no right or wrong way to be when you're a member of the LGBTQ+ community. I'm a lesbian and, when I first started accepting that, I felt very similar to the way you do right now because I'm a very feminine person and the image people tend to associate with lesbians is that of butch lesbians. But, the LGBTQ+ community is incredibly diverse. There are people with all kinds of personalities and, the more involved you get with the community as a whole, you'll find people that you click with. Just know that there is no specific way to act and that your sexuality is a part of who you are, not something that comes with a rulebook for you to follow.