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In addition to making sure you're really pregnant, and how you can actually get pregnant (like that without penetration it's extremely unlikely seems to be a big one), I would like to add that it would be good to talk about when tests work (2 weeks after), symptoms, and that sort of thing.

It might be worth adding that you can tell people in whatever order you want, it might be best friend - mom - boyfriend, or therapist, or the total opposite. For example, my best friend told me before she told her boyfriend because she thought maybe she wanted an abortion because she was scared and didn't thik she could do it and I said I'd support that be there for her but that if she saw a future with her boyfriend she probably shouldn't keep something that big from him so I suggested she tell him first, but that if she really wanted an abortion that she should be clear about wanting that and that it's her choice and go from there. She ended up changing her mind and keeping the baby, her boyfriend is an amazing dad and their getting married so of course it worked out for her, but not everyone will want to change their minds and, as such, I some times feel like talking to someone else who will be emotionally invested is scary for some people who are unsure and therefore talking to a level headed friend can be a really good help.