[Ryan1]

I think the obvious answer is most women like a well shaped man. However the most attractive thing is how comfortable you are in your own skin, being confident in the man you are. If you are skeptical of your self other people will be too. If you are 100% comfortable with your self and your flaws others will find you more magnetic. Truly though the shape of your body is constantly changing. realise that the issues you have you can work on. Some people face challenges everyday that they can do nothing about.

I think its in your best interest to curb your life style and eat healthy thats really all it takes. You can choose to work out but honestly nutrition is 80% of your body shape. There are obvious other factors some people have a low materialism there's other things that can naturally cause someone to be thicker. I've truly seen huge people cut massive amounts of weight. You just have to be cognizant of exactly what your eating and drinking and keep in mind this isn't a diet its a complete life style change there is no end to eating heathly.