[ladygodoftitsandwine]

It doesn't scare me. It's not attractive and it kind of grosses me out. I can only speak for me and my own personal opinions.

Weight loss takes time. Simply cutting out unhealthy foods won't cut it. You have to exercise and make healthy lifestyle choices. If you really want to lose weight, then you'll actively work on it. If you don't want to lose weight, then you won't. It all comes down to your willingness and what your choices are. If you keep doing what you've always done then you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. Nothing changes if nothing changes.