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Re: Does the presence of body fat and male breasts , scare women away when dating? - February 17th 2016, 01:31 PM

Improving your diet is a positive change for your well-being and will make you feel better in the long run with or without a partner. If you're worried about your diet and exercise status, I'd speak to a health professional! You don't need to cut out all junk food entirely-this can sometimes make junk food even more tempting and cause you to slip and eat more of it! Instead, eat it in moderation along with other healthy foods, such as high protein chicken, beans (which are also filled with fiber), and fat sources such as seeds and nuts! I'd also focus less on your weight. Here, you posted your weight and BMI and I feel you're very hung up on those numbers. Those numbers are not a measurement of your worth, nor really a great estimation of your health. They're just numbers. Focus on feeling good, both physically and emotionally.

Now, for your real question. People vary in their preferences. My friend tends to like very muscular guys, I tend to be attracted to guys more in an "average" range, maybe with a bit of muscles or a bit chubby. You have your own preferences for women. You can't expect all people to like you, but there are many people who will be attracted to your body type and the personality inside. Don't worry so much about trying to fit some thin ideal. Treat yourself well, treat other people kindly, and somebody will appreciate it.


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