Hello.
I just think that when it comes down to it, some parents think along the lines of " Well, my child is just a child.. what's the worst that could happen? " But they don't realize that serious repercussions can occur when a child's pressures, problems are ignored. I also think that parents also partially try to avoid thinking or talking about it because they might think it's their fault.
I do agree that talking to a counselor is a good idea... but there are also other steps you could take to overcome this state of mind.
You could write a journal describing how you think and feel for the day, so that you can document your progress and not overthink things .. It'll also help you because it'll create an outlet for you to express your feelings, and help rant it out. You could also tell us how you're feeling, and we'll advice you and help you out.
With acceptance comes growth, and with growth comes maturity.
I know that you'll be able to beat this.. plenty of people have successfully overcome
SH , and you can be one of those too.
Fight the good fight and stay strong!