[Nightblood.]

Unfortunately, if she doesn't want to help herself then there isn't much else you can do other than lend an ear. No one can force her to accept help and it seems like she isn't ready for that yet. She has to want it for it to work for her. Be careful in trying to do more because if she really doesn't want it, she may not take it very well. Just keep letting her talk, but don't be afraid to repeat that you feel she needs more help.