View Single Post
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
Aamber Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Aamber's Avatar
 
Age: 26

Posts: 3
Points: 4,609, Level: 10
Points: 4,609, Level: 10 Points: 4,609, Level: 10 Points: 4,609, Level: 10
Join Date: October 28th 2015

Staying friends with ex boyfriend that moved? - October 28th 2015, 08:05 AM

I met this guy through some of my friends. We started talking a little bit and after a couple months, we both fell in love with each other. It may sound crazy because it was in a short time but I've never felt this way towards anyone before.
He recently left to go to college and now he lives on the other side of the country. At first I wanted to stay together and make it work but he said that it wouldn't work out because after college he is definitely staying there because he absolutely loves the state. I know that this situation is really hard for both of us. We decided to stay friends and keep in touch- some days I wonder if this is the right choice to make.
I don't know if I should stay friends with him because it is making it so much harder for me to move on and not think about losing him, but he is one of the only people that is here for me right now. Is it worth it in the future to continue talking to him or will it drag me behind? Also, any other advice on how to make this work or make it easier for me will be appreciated