[Eternal]

Your problems are not stupid, and you shouldn't compare them to what others are going through. Your feelings are always valid, and it's okay if even small things make you upset. However, could you be a little more clear about what kind of advice you'd like to receive? What are some of the bigger challenges in your life right now that you need some help with? I can give general advice with what you've listed but if I get more details I can make my advice more personal and in turn, more helpful.