Thank you for replying BreakingBeautifully
I agree with you for sure with your advice to me
We are trying to get to where we should be financially to be able to get married in the future. I work part time right now where if I got full time no benefits would be offered and I don't like that I want benefits for me cause I have diabetes and etc so I need it to be covered or etc. I am in the process right now of finding a fulltime job but nothing has come up yet. Keep you posted. And my boyfriend is working a full time job during the week and along with a part time job on the weekend so it keeps him busy and pulls in money but that's for all his responsibilities like bills and etc. So anything he can put in savings I know he will if he can. Which is for anything like a emergency or etc. I want to get a fulltime job where I can make good money with good hours and etc so I can put money away for our future like to get married and etc. Its hard to make that kind of money on only 25 hours a week and part time minimum wage you know?
As far as my boyfriends Dad not being fond of me it doesn't matter to us as we love and care for eachother and that's all that matters right? My boyfriend told me that also. So I agree with him. It just breaks my heart that my boyfriends Dad doesn't think he should be with me and should find someone else on a dating site. And also I don't want to Marry into a family where his Dad doesn't like me you know. His Mom always asks me how I am doing when she sees me and I talk to my boyfriends Grandma but his Dads different. I sometimes feel like his Dad does that to the other brothers Wives you know. That's not right if the brothers are happy with there wives and my BF is happy with me his Dad should stay out of our lives you know?
Keep you posted how this all goes.