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Re: Bullied By My Brothers? - July 25th 2015, 01:56 AM

Hi there,

Go up to your User CP (top left of the page by your username) and click on it. Click "edit options" and scroll down until you see something about a panic button. You can enter any webpage in there, and then turn it on. The button will appear on the top right corner and you can click on that when anyone enters the room.

I'm glad you've talked to your mom and your friends about it even though your brothers have continued their behavior. It takes strength to talk about this and it's healthy to talk about it too. Continue to get your feelings out, whether that's by blogging/journaling or talking to someone you trust. You mentioned that your brothers send you pictures of things to scare you. They send it through text, I'm guessing? Perhaps you can block them or even look into getting a new number so they are unable to contact you. If they're sending things through social media, I'm sure you can block them there too.

I think you'd benefit from creating a safe place. Do you have a place in your house that you can call your own? Maybe it's a corner of your bedroom or your bedroom as a whole. Put positive things in there, as well as anything that makes you feel comfortable. I hope you're at least able to go into your bedroom to get away from your brothers because you need a place of your own.

Like it's been said above, I think you need to have a serious talk with your mom. Maybe you can sit down with her and talk to her about what your brothers are doing and how it makes you feel. Maybe you can suggest things that she can do to help make things easier on you. You can even record things your brothers do and show that to your mom if you want.



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