[Kindred]

Don't feel shallow. This is a perfectly valid concern

I can empathize with him: when I'm stressed, or worried, or even the teensiest bit upset it can be really, really difficult for me to get in the mood. I can even want sex (I'm very physically attracted to my partner, that's not the problem) but when I initiate my body just goes...nope. It probably has nothing to do with you, and although seeking reassurance can in the short term work, the feelings probably won't go away until you yourself believe that. It's a perfectly understandable way to feel and it can be really hard to get over. Give him the benefit of the doubt and see how things go when he's under less stress.

Distract yourself when the feelings get too hard. It should pass my lovely <3