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I'd talk to your doctor about your smoking habits and come up with a plan for quitting. Depending on how much you're smoking, quitting cold turkey may not be the easiest choice, and there may be just as healthy options that will still protect your baby.

Is motherhood something that you want in your life right now? You expressed shock and that it was unplanned, but did not specify what you exactly wanted. Early on in a pregnancy, you do have time to think of other options, such as putting your child up for adoption or abortion. These choices can be based on your previous life plans but also your financial state, how much support you have from your family and partner, etc. While being a mother is absolutely a beautiful part of many people's lives, it is something that you have the choice whether or not you want to do and at what time. You need to do what is best for you, and a child offers a wonderful opportunity to start a new life and a family, but there are ways to turn your life around and live your dreams. It's your life, and we're here to guide you through any decision you choose to make.