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Re: I want to be on better terms with my ex-girlfriend. - June 9th 2015, 01:44 PM

I would say think carefully about the reason you're reconnecting with her, and be honest with yourself. I'm on good terms with one of my exes- we work very well as friends, and our relationship now is completely different to the romantic relationship we once had. It can be a difficult balance if you ask me but I would say it all depends on what you want out of striking up this friendship. Like I said the relationship I have with my ex now is completely different to the connection we once had and you can't expect to introduce her back into your life the way it was before. That's not saying you can't be friends, that's saying don't expect to treat each other the way you once did or be as close. If that makes sense?

2 years is a long time and you'll have formed god knows how many associations (positive and negative) with her company. Make sure you don't have expectations of the friendship if you do decide to go through with it because of this



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