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Re: So worried.. Can anyone give me advice incase in pregnant? - May 8th 2015, 09:35 PM

Personally, I do not think you had sex. You were extremely intoxicated, but it doesn't seem like you blacked out during this experience. Did anybody actually witness you having sex? Did you feel different the next day, such as a bit sore (not just your vagina, but any muscle soreness) or did you "smell differently" down there. If not, I do not think you did. However, if you did, it's a bit too late to take any type of morning after pill (which can be taken ~three days after sex) so as Skye said, I would recommend taking a pregnancy test in two weeks.

I also want to remind you that alcohol and sex are two things you do not want to mix. While you were both drunk, he had no right to even start to initiate if he could see how extremely intoxicated you were, and that you particularly said no. You did nothing wrong, and you shouldn't feel bad about what happened. You may want to drink less at parities in the future, but nobody has the right to pressure you into sex while you are intoxicated-you cannot consent while drunk. No matter what, he seems like a shady character, and I wouldn't associate with him unless he is a close friend of yours, and in that case, I'd talk to him about consent and alcohol and that he cannot be taking advantage of people when they are intoxicated, and that if he is unable to control himself to not push sex on people when he is intoxicated, he should consider drinking less.


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