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Re: Erection Problem - April 18th 2009, 07:47 PM
Losing your virginity is not something to rush or "get out of the way". It doesn't matter what age you lose your virginity. But it's apparant that you want to lose yours pretty soon, and you may be putting yourself under pressure to lose it quickly. In my opinion, 3 months isn't a long time to be together before you start having sex, but if you're sure that you're comfortable (and safe!) then that's fine.

If you think too hard about keeping it up, it could actually make things worse. Try to relax. Lots of foreplay other than making out (you may be kind of "used to it" so it's not as much of a turn on anymore). Try lots of teasing, talk dirty etc. It may be a problem that just goes away over time.

If the problem persists, maybe you should try the doctor.



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