Re: She Forgot I Was Raped? -
April 11th 2015, 10:14 PM
This is an unfortunate situation to be in. I think the fact that she re-added your rapist on facebook is definitely a sign of her true colors. If she was truly your friend and wanted to work through this she would 1) not have added him and 2) would not have gotten her mom and boyfriend involved.
I think the fact that she got her boyfriend and mom involved was very immature of her. You should always try and settle your friendship or relationship problems on your own accord.
You're rapist might have taken a lot from you but I assure you it doesn't have to continue. I think that you can find friends who will be understanding of the fact that you were raped and hurt by other people in your life. It can take time to find these friendships but I believe that it is possible. Don't let the negative thoughts and concerns worry you or stop you from reaching out to people and building friendships.
You can make it through this. What happened with your friend might have been discouraging but a true friend would rally behind you.
If you need anything please feel free to message me.
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