[LuckyCharmz]

Kat's right! I've been in similar situations with my boyfriend's mother and it's very smothering. The different: I can't keep my mouth shut. She raised her son to be the man he is today. Anytime we have a party at our home, she jumps in and starts telling US what to do: who is being invited, what foods will be served, etc. It gets very annoying. Normally, he takes care of it but sometimes, I need to jump in too.

Ultimately, that type of approach doesn't always work with some people. Obviously, he's her first born so she's going to treat him differently than his siblings. Same for me: I'm the youngest, so my mom was more productive with my sister in the way she was raised in comparison to her "low key" way with me.

Communication is key, so I'd address the issues you're having with your boyfriend. Letting him know how you feel will help work the issues out.

I wish you the best of luck!