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Re: Life is bringing me down, anxiety after anxiety... What do I do? -
February 26th 2015, 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Lordakin
Hello there , I am sorry to hear that you found out that your partner was watching inappropriate content. I myself find this unacceptable for someone do to this while in a relationship. People who watch inappropriate content are usually those who are not, and cannot get into a relationship. However, your boyfriend could just have you as his source of amusement. However that is not enough for him. I personally think you should talk about it with him. You should talk about his new habit and see if you can stop it. If he continues you should break up with him because he was betraying your trust.
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There are a number of people who watch porn and can still maintain healthy relationships. There are couples who watch porn together. There are people who have no problem with their partner watching porn.
As for the OP, I think you should sit down with your partner and talk to him about your concerns. Let him know that the fact that he was masturbating to Indian girls has you feeling as though you cannot measure up. I know how disconcerting this can be. I think that there are a number of people who would be upset with this. The best thing you can do is communicate your worries and see what your partner has to say about it. Hopefully, he will be able to help you feel more confident about your relationship again and help you work on building trust in him again. Just because he was watching this particular porn does not mean he is not still in love with you.
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