Girlfriend's homophobic, abusive parents found out about us -
February 24th 2015, 04:59 PM
As of Sunday afternoon my girlfriend of almost 9 months' parents discovered that we were dating and that she has depression and cuts herself and ever since then it's been hell for both of us. They took her phone, took the wifi, took all the stuff I gave her, basically left her with just a bed and a TV. The only way we've been able to communicate is through her friend's phones at school and I'm really concerned for her safety. She said her parents haven't hit her since they found out but they called her a fuck up and a freak and disgusting and nobody in her house is speaking to her. We haven't broken up and have no plans to but it's a very stressful and upsetting situation for both of us, we both struggle with severe depression and self harm and are both actively suicidal right now. We see eachother every other month usually, which wasn't nearly enough to begin with and now I can't see us being together until I get my license this summer. I know she's struggling a lot and so am I, I cut multiple times a day and pop pills and drink and basically spend my days trying to distract myself and stop the pain. This was my biggest fear and now that it's happening I have no idea what to do. I'm not gonna give up on her or us but I can't live without her and I really really wanna die but I know i have to be strong for her.
I don't know what to do to help her and I was just wondering if any of you have been through a similar situation or could give me input or advice, it would mean a lot to me.
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