[FireHeart]

I tend to find people to date when I'm not looking for them, honestly. But once I know I like someone, and I feel this "click" with them I tend to start to get to know them and hang out with them. Explore them as friends. I'm a bit of a cuddleslut, so I tend to cuddle with people I'm interested in because I love to cuddle and It's how I say "You're a good human, I think I like you." Then things just...get to be more. More talking to each other and sharing things, more hanging out, more cuddling. And the closer I get to someone the less subtle I am about my feelings and the less subtle they seem to be with me. So it just kind of...happens. (Sorry, this may seem hopelessly vauge. The process is sort of a mystery to me as well!)

As far as physicality, I don't normally date people unless I've fallen in love with them. And when I fall in love I fall in love so completely and wholeheartedly that I probably seem crazy to most people. And when I love someone like that, and I'm so comfortable with them and trust them, I tend to get physical fairly fast because I'm not that concerned with how long we wait or don't wait and I long for intimacy beyond cuddles(but still definitely for cuddles, always more cuddles)

I would recommend really getting to know the people you like. Talking to them and being yourself around them and letting them be themselves around you. For me one of the biggest things that contribute to wanting to be with a person is my comfort level around them, how easily we can have a good conversation. If someone makes me at ease I'm more likely to want to be with them. But that's just me, some people might want the opposite.