I CANNOT be your only source of happiness. Don't you see that that's the problem? You place this impossible amount of responsibility on my shoulders to make YOU happy, even though you don't see it. I noticed it a few weeks ago when you got upset that I was going out with new friends and it means you might see me less. Suddenly I get all this flack about how I'm not being your best friend and you're just someone I go out to dinner with once a week? I'm sorry I have other people in my life so you're not the ONLY thing I look forward to each week, but that shouldn't be used to guilt-trip me into hanging out with you.

I don't OWE you anything. Our time is our time because I CHOOSE to spend it with you. You have no, absolutely NO, fucking demands on my life or my time. You are not ENTITLED to part of me. This is MY life and I choose who I want to spend it with. If you can't accept that then we have a serious problem.

I just can't be what you want me to be. I can't "pick you up" when you're broken-hearted when the broken-heartedness is about me. That's not fair to me.

So man the fuck up and take some responsibility for your life. Stop depending on me to make you happy.