[xxpaigiexx]

Hey there,

If you're not ready to have sex or don't want to for any personal reasons then that is your choice. You've explained you don't want a sexual relationship and she was fully aware of that when the two of you got together. I don't condone your girlfriend's behaviour in slapping you, yes she was probably angry, feeling a little rejected but that is no excuse to hit someone. When people have a drink sometimes they say things that they don't mean, but unfortunately they can't be taken back. Have you spoken to your girlfriend for the reasons that you don't want to have sex. Maybe your girlfriend is having a difficult time understanding your side of the argument? I would speak with her and explain that you are attracted to her and it has nothing to do with that. Different people have different attitudes to sex and maybe when your girlfriend understands yours she may stop trying to pressure you into having sex with her.

It doesn't matter what your reasons for not having sex are, if that's the way you feel then your girlfriend needs to respect your wishes, once she understands a little more then maybe she will stop trying to pressure you into having sex.

I wish you the best of luck,
Paige