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Re: Ex-girlfriend wants to be alone? - January 13th 2015, 01:51 PM

Wearing the earrings you bought her for Christmas doesn't change anything. They were a gift, and she most likely liked them, hence why she chose to wear them. Wearing an article of clothing or a piece of jewelry isn't going to be a sign that she wants to get back together, I'm sorry to say.

If you're planning on going NC for two weeks, do it. And honestly stick with it. But, again, two weeks isn't going to be enough time for her to change her mind. You need to go NC until SHE'S ready to be in contact with you. You said your piece, and she said hers. She is obviously looking for space, and while two weeks might seem like a long time to go without speaking to her, it's going to feel as if you're still not giving her the space she obviously so desperately needs.