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Thank you very much for the advice. Here's an update on the situation.

My ex-girlfriend came home late from work, so I decided to ask the following questions:

1) Are you seeing anyone else or? You've never been late home from work so i'm not accussing you at all. You work in a busy hospital, but what with everything that has gone on. If you're seeing someone i'd like to know so I can move on and respect your wishes.

She replied: No. When I said I want to be alone, I meant alone. No guys, nothing. By the time I get another, you will have moved on, anyway.

Question 2) Do you love me? And think we could ever.....EVER fix this and be in a relationship again, or are we done forever?

She replied: I don't know. I wanted space and you didn't give me the space I wanted.

I then noticed she was wearing the blue topaz earrings I bought her for Christmas. So does that change anything??

I'm planning to go NC (no contact) for 2 weeks. Then after 2 whole weeks, if she doesn't want me, i'll expect it and I will be able to move on amicably.