[LuckyCharmz]

Sadly, I'm going to agree with Traci.

Yes, we get that you want to try to fix things with her, and she understands that too. You're exes, so there is no "somebody else". She's single, you're single. That gives you both the right to move on to new people, to flirt, to enjoy being single, etc. She's asked you kindly to stop texting her, and you should respect that. If there were any chances of the two of you getting back together, you may have ruined it by not giving her the space she was asking for.

Your relationship with her ended for a reason. Whether it was on mutual terms or not, you should be respectful of her wishes. I'm sure she'd do the same for you if the situation was reversed. As far as the "loving you" part, just because you're not together doesn't mean the her feelings for you have completely diminished. An ex and I were together for two years, and still said the L word after we had broken up. Feeling are not a light switch, you can't turn them on and off at the drop of a hat. So it's very possible that she may still love you (in some way). You went through a lot together, that's obvious.

The fact still remains the same: if she asks you to leave her alone, you leave her alone. When she's ready to talk, IF she's ready to talk, let her come to you. You can let her know that you'll be there if she needs you, to talk to, etc, but then let that be it.