[Coffee.]

I'm giving my typical "Traci" warning which means I'm going to be 100% honest and not sugarcoat things.

You need to leave her alone. It doesn't matter if she's giving you "mixed signals." The fact is she said to stop texting her, and you need to respect that. If she wants to open things up again, she'll message you. Period. Next, you have no right to block people on her phone or on her Facebook, if I read that right. You can encourage her to do so if men are harassing her, but ultimately, that's her space and you did not respect that. It doesn't even matter if you were dating-I would be furious if my boyfriend were to even log onto my Facebook without my permission. I do not know your relationship, but from what she said, I believe she misses you; however, she does not miss this kind of behavior. You're being a bit controlling, and you're being too clingy if she does not want you around. She has the right to her space.

In the end, things may not improve. I'm sorry that you're in this situation. In no way do I believe that you do not love her-you absolutely love her. But you cannot force her to love you back, and at this time, you may not be healthy for her. She may need some time to develop as a person alone, single, and you need to respect that if you truly care about her. Stay strong.