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Re: Best Friend or Boyfriend - December 21st 2014, 08:05 PM

Hey there,

I personally think that telling someone you have feelings for someone else while you and the other person are in a relationship at the same time is risky and can potentially ruin both your friendship with the guy and your relationship with your boyfriend. The best thing I'd say to do is to take some time and think about it. Who do you really have feelings for- your boyfriend or your guy best friend?


Over time, analyze your feelings towards both of them. If you start to see that you have more feelings for your guy best friend, then you should break up with your boyfriend since it won't be the right thing to continue to date him when you are pursuing interest in another guy.

Another thing that could be is that these feelings could just come and go. You could just keep him as a friend but if that's causing problems in the relationship, then it would be best not to continue the friendship.

Its ultimately your choice of what you want to do. Think about your feelings and since you know your relationship the best, you'll know what to do.

Hope this helps and wish you all the very best!


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