Oh yeah my relationship with [] has improved a lot internally for me bc I don't view him solely and constantly as negative anymore
so that has changed drastically haha but the actual relationship hasn't changed that much, we have just had a few more conversations and much to my surprise (tho its not actually surprising) they did not lead to arguments or anything bad !! They are significant tho in that they are (presumably) mutually agreed to/wanted/we are both ok with it for once and Im fine with it for once
