[anonymouswhale]

You undoubtedly need an education to pursue ANYTHING aerospace-related. But, you would feel stressed out if you were your girlfriend, right?

Communication, communication. I would recommend sitting down and talking to her. This isn't about dooming your future together. This is the time for you two to assess your relationship and say, "Let's make a plan to make this work out" rather than "This isn't working out". You need to make a financial plan and stick to it. She needs to hear your side and you hers.

Stress will be greatly reduced if you're both committed to tackling the things you have on your plate. Let her know that your job may put you in debt now, but in a few years it will more than pay the bills. And you want a strong future.

Ask for her opinion on how to handle the situation. Believe me when I say that money is a big deal-breaker with couples. But, if you mentioned even wanting to marry her, then she has to not only be your lover and friend but also your financial team mate.