[Celyn]

Hey there,

Do you still have feelings for him? Or are you interested in just becoming friends?

If you want to become friends with your ex, I think you should just let him know that you want to stay in touch with him, as friends, and would like to catch up sometime. If you still have feelings for him, it may be best to try to move on, if he doesn’t have the same feelings towards you.

It can be hard with anxiety and two jobs to have the time and effort to call or arrange to meet up. But letting him know that you are always around for a chat, may be of some comfort to him.

Personally, I don’t trust locations, based off computers. Not sure about dating sites though. But my computer’s supposed location is nowhere near where I actually am. As to him asking ‘what’s new?’ it may be a general question.

I think you should talk to him and explain your feelings, and ask whether he is interested in staying in touch with you or not. I’ve looked up my ex on dating sites too, but it gets you nowhere.

All the best