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Re: Was it sex or was I raped? - September 29th 2014, 08:34 PM
From my perspective it most definitely is. You stated several times you didn't want to do anything with him and yet ended up doing so only out of fear. It's entirely up to you how you proceed but don't allow what happened to let slide. Unless you genuinely feel like you're able to move past what happened, I strongly suggest you speak to someone about what can be done. Rape can have unwanted negative effects, particularly mentally.

It doesn't matter how naive you were, or weren't. He knew what he was doing and he doesn't deserve to get away with purposely luring you into a situation you clearly stated you wanted no part in.