[taylalatbh.]

It seems like it already is a friends with benefits situation. He clearly sees you as someone he can spend time with and fool around with and have none of the responsibilities that goes along with a relationship. If this is not what you want then you need to speak to him about it. You said that you would be upset if he found someone else, so that says to me that you want to be with him.

No matter how difficult confronting him and having the conversation is, you should do it. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt, and you must know that. You should find out what he thinks about the situation, and whether he wants something more too.

If he doesn't, then I would advise that you end the relations that you have with him. There will come a time where he finds someone else and he'll drop you like a hat and it'll be very upsetting for you. Sounds like you want to be dating someone, not just 'used' as and when he wants.

Have a conversation about it. That's the only way to resolve the situation.