Hi there, I just read your post. You said you feel more transfemenine, but does this means that you're thinking about becoming a transgirl? (sorry for asking it like this). Well I need to tell you that I have a boyfriend too. Before our relationship he was together with a girl...who was actually a guy at first. While they were in a relationship she came out as a transgender. She told him, out of the blue that she wanted to become a female. My boyfriend told me that he had a hard time accepting her decision but he knew that she mentally had a hard time and leaving her was no option. He decided to support her in every possible way. So she did the surgery and she turned out to become a beautiful girl and a wonderful friend for me (yes she is the ex of my bf but we became friends). What I am saying is that if you boyfriend really loves you, then he should support you in every way he can. I think the best way is to talk about it even if it's really difficult...and yeah I know it is! But don't let you down, just try telling him
