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I actually so initiate, have with a number of guys.
And I know it's harder for men, judging how many guys have complemented my appearance and my very brief profile I am guessing I might even have it easier than other girls even. One of the guys I was talking too seems more like friends material and he asked me how I liked the site so I admitted I found it a little overwhelming to try to keep up and he also said he definitely found the male/female proportions difficult. So I know it's a real thing. Like apparently the thing says I reply "very selectively" which I find surprising cause I have tried so hard to answer as many people as I can as well as initiating conversations.... But if I literally can't sit on my phone 24/7 trying to keep up with 10-15 guys then I can't do much about that. It is what it is and I can't sit around and feel to bad about that. And it's not that I am flat out not interested but if I blink and suddenly have 8 people to answer and don't want to half ass my conversations then some loses out whether they deserve it or not.
It's not a creative effort I mind. It's when they come on sooooo strongly. And I'm like holy shit slow down!