[Kate*]

I have a feeling that if you knew what it was really like, you wouldn't be so against it. I guess it shouldn't matter to me since avoiding something if you need it hurts you and not me.

I don't even know what to say about all this anymore. We can't control her or make her see things or be easier to deal with. If she wants to act like that, it's her choice. Just because she chooses to do this doesn't mean that it has to be put up with. I have bigger things to worry about than her maturity level.