[Kate*]

-- I now have an idea of what the problem has always been. From what you've told me this CAN work and I WILL be able to do it. PLEASE don't give up on me yet. If you're going to stick with me through this and we're setting a precedent, you're going to have to adjust how you normally do things. A lot, and so will everyone else.

-- Newsflash, I DID. TWICE. And I was not being dramatic, in general people going through that are NOT calm or rational. It will never work that way, but I'll remember to try that the next time I tell you, which I'm 99.9% sure will be NEVER.

-- As much as I'm mad at you about that, I guess I have to thank you for this. If you're going to agree to help me with it, you're going to have to adjust a little which will include no threats, no blame, and a lot of positive encouragement which you will probably think is too much, but believe me it's not.