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Re: Should I tell an American girl I'm dating that I served the military ? - April 22nd 2014, 01:22 AM
Definitely tell her. Whether she finds out or not, you can't build a relationship on lies. It's unfair to both or you. If she really likes you for who you are as a person, the fact that you served in the military won't bother her too much, and even if it does, she won't judge you for it. If she breaks up with you because of this, then it probably wasn't worth trying to be in a relationship with her anyway.

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