[THE FAPMAN]

Hmm. Lets see this from a mans perspective.
Theres always the double standard which screws up everything, so lets pretend we are in the normal world.
Your boyfriend (if i get a vote) is not guilty.
He isnt guilty of keeping girls pictures on his phone. I mean, they are just pics. Im guessing you wouldnt want him to have your naked pictures while hes wanking off so why not someone elses? Does it matter really?
Also, showing pics to his friends. Whats wrong with that? I assume you speak with your friends from time to time about the same things. Hot boys that are celebrities, someome saw a hot guy on the beach other day, blablabla. Same thing. If you trust him that he is a nice guy and not an asshole dont whip him for fucks sake.
Hes a guy. Guys like naked women. You just CANNOT restrict him pictures of other women and porn. You just cant do that and expect him to be happy or to trust him on his word that he has none.
Guys are like that. You can either accept it or go to lesbians.
Or find a guy who is addicted to you who wont look anyone else, and if you ask me, thats fucking creepy.

Now, as you may already noticed, majority of this forum are women and girls. They will be on your side. But pretty much 80-90% of guys would be on his side because for us its normal. We arent sexualy restricted like women.
We will speak of how long we wank off, whats the size of our willies (and lie about it of course) and eachother girlfriends if we trust eachother blablabla. Its just normal for us.

Ill repeat: If you trust him not to cheat on you and if you look at him randomly few times a day/week and if he looks happy to you he is happy, let him do things men do...
Only thing i would react on if the pics are of girls faaaaar younger than him. If youre 18 or older and he has pics of 16-17 year old girls im on your side. But if youre 15-16 years old, and he has pics of like porn stars or something like that just leave him be...

Also i saw that you wrote he has pics of his old gfs. Yeah, i do to. That aint weird. If he was/is a player those are like thophies. And if hes a normal guy like me, they are reminders on what he fucked up so he can correct it in this relationship, and what he didnt fuck up so he can continue doing it.