Re: Obsessive boyfriend -
April 1st 2014, 04:25 PM
You definitely need to leave this relationship. Messages like "I can't live without you" and "you are mine" and threatening to kill himself; those are not just him being "obsessive" those are signs of him being abusive to you. I definitely suggest breaking up with him especially do it in a public area just in case he tries to hurt you. Definitely contact the authorities if you're afraid that he's going to kill you or hurt you in anyway and definitely tell some of his friends and family that he has been threatening to kill himself and to keep an eye out for that kind behavior; if they think he might try hurting himself they should call the authorities.
Once you break it off with him, I definitely suggest cutting off all contact with him completely; delete his number block him off all of your social networking sites, etc. Often times people in a situation like this will go back to their abusive partner out of guilt (i.e. to make sure that you're not the reason he kills himself, etc.) cutting him off completely will make that less likely to happen. Just remember that if he does end up killing himself IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! I've been in relationships where people have threatened to commit suicide in order to manipulate me and to keep me from leaving them. Like I said, tell his friends or family that he has been suicidal and they can get him the help he needs from there.
I hope I helped a bit. Good luck and be safe.
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